How to Word Your Wedding Invitation for an Adults-Only Event

(Updated for 2025) Planning a wedding can be exciting, but when it comes to communicating important information to your guests, it's essential to be clear and concise. Don't worry; it's easier than you think! Some people overthink and miss key things when reaching out to their guests. Here are some valuable tips to ensure your wedding guidelines are crystal clear:

When writing out your invitations and rules on peoples plus ones, dress code, timeline and directions etc. Make sure to have the answer to the question "Are kids allowed?" a direct No. I've seen people make the mistake of starting their answer off like " We absolutely would LOVE your little ones to come! We know how much joy they can bring however we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults only event..."

This is a mistake. Why you ask? Because most people don't read everything, they just skim. All they see is "We LOVE little ones" and take that as a YES to the answer.

So instead write something like this.

Are Kids invited?

"No, we have decided to have no kids allowed and keep our wedding and reception an adult only with exception from those in the bridal party..." There is no mistaking that! But to be even more clear you can rephrase the question to:

Why we haven't invited kids?

Or Why our big day is adults only?

“We’ve chosen an adults-only event to suit our vibe, with exceptions for our bridal party.”

Modern Touches: E-Invites and Wedding Websites

In 2025, paper invites aren’t your only tool, digital options are game-changers. E-invites let you send sleek, instant invitations via email or text, with RSVP links built in. Add a line like:“This is an adults-only event—see details at our website!”Link to your wedding website, where a dedicated “FAQ” section can reinforce:

• “Is this kid-friendly?”

  
  

• “No, we’re keeping it adults-only (bridal party kids excepted) for a relaxed, mature vibe.”

  
  

Websites also let you embed maps, schedules, and even a playful “No Kids Allowed” graphic. Guests can RSVP digitally, cutting confusion and paper waste. It’s modern, eco-friendly, and crystal clear.

Following Up

After invites—digital or print—send a reminder. Text, email, or snail mail works, recapping key info:

“Quick reminder: Our wedding is adults-only (except bridal party kids). Check our website for more!”

This reinforces your rule and keeps guests in the loop.

Dale Nichols - Blog Author

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